Linds here.

I decided for today’s poetry to look at two things. 1. One of my favorite poets. 2. One of my favorite topics. I did this because I couldn’t decide on just one poem. And, I thought if I included several, it might spark your interest or inspire you to go seek out good poetry and nourish your soul!

One of my favorite poets is the American poet, essayist, and feminist Adrienne Rich. She contributed countless thought provoking and emotional poems since the 1950’s. One of her works of poetry is called The Dream of a Common Language, which includes the group of poems entitled, Twenty-one Love Poems. Below are my two favorites in the collection.

XI

Every peak is a crater. This is the law of volcanoes,
making them eternally and visibly female.
No height without depth, without a burning core,
though our straw soles shred on the hardened lava.
I want to travel with you to every sacred mountain
smoking within like the sibyl stooped over her tripod,
I want to reach for your hand as we scale the path,
to feel your arteries glowing in my clasp,
never failing to note the small, jewel-like flower
unfamiliar to us, nameless till we rename her,
that clings to the slowly altering rock-
that detail outside ourselves that brings us to ourselves,
was here before us, knew we would come, and sees beyond us.

As I read this poem, I feel distinctly and proudly female. No height without depth, without a burning core. I love being described this way. It feels strong, and profound. I also find myself imagining traveling to every sacred mountain with my adventurous wife, holding her hand and discovering beauty together that is before us, within us, and beyond us.

XVII
No one’s fated or doomed to love anyone.
The accidents happen, we’re not heroines,
they happen in our lives like car crashes,
books that change us, neighborhoods
we move into and come to love.
Tristan und Isolde is scarcely the story,
women at least should know the difference
between love and death. No prison cup,
no penance. Merely a notion that the tape – recorder
should have caught some ghost of us: that tape – recorder
not merely played but should have listened to us,
and could instruct those after us:
this we were, this is how we tried to love,
and these are the forces we had ranged within us
within us and against us, against us and within us.

I relish the thought that love happens like books that change us. And, as someone who knows and appreciates the power of books, and of love, this poem gripped me from the opening lines. I think this poem, though beautiful in its entirety, opens and closes with profound meaning. How impactful and altering to believe that our lives and love could be a record for those after us, even a testimony for generations yet unborn of the meaning of love, more specifically, the power and depth of a love between my wife and my heart and soul.

Since there are so many poems and genres of poems out there in the world, my second focus was on one of my favorite topics, books. Yes, I have previously established that this might make me a dork, or boring, or any number of non-outgoing things, but I unapologetically love books and even poetry about books. The following two poems make me want to read and think and read some more until the world runs out of ink and pages to hold it.

And Yet the Books
by Czeslaw Milosz

And yet the books will be there on the shelves, separate beings,
That appeared once, still wet
As shining chestnuts under a tree in autumn,
And, touched, coddled, began to live
In spite of fires on the horizon, castles blown up,
Tribes on the march, planets in motion.
“We are,” they said, even as their pages
Were being torn out, or a buzzing flame
Licked away their letters. So much more durable
Than we are, whose frail warmth
Cools down with memory, disperses, perishes.
I imagine the earth when I am no more:
Nothing happens, no loss, it’s still a strange pageant,
Women’s dresses, dewy lilacs, a song in the valley.
Yet the books will be there on the shelves, well born,
Derived from people, but also from radiance, heights.

Notes on the Art of Poetry
by Dylan Thomas

I could never have dreamt that there were such goings-on
in the world between the covers of books,
such sandstorms and ice blasts of words,
such staggering peace, such enormous laughter,
such and so many blinding bright lights,
splashing all over the pages
in a million bits and pieces
all of which were words, words, words,
and each of which were alive forever
in its own delight and glory and oddity and light.

Books and poetry hold more power than the most notorious dictator. They inspire, uplift, bring you to a depth previously unknown to your inmost being, inform, teach, challenge, and expand. Thank you poets. Thank you writers. Thank you.

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Steph here.

Our weekend was so brilliant that we just couldn’t take the time to blog about it last night! :) I just love that. Yesterday was a great day. We started early to get a good seat at Denver’s annual pride parade. It was really fun and the weather was cool and we enjoyed every minute.

happy pride!

 

Happy Pride!

Happy Pride!

 

I just thoroughly enjoyed the love I felt for all those people and the interactions we had. And, of course, I loved getting to spend the time with Linds. (Look for her post about Pride on June 28th!!) We also got some great free stuff…

Happy Pride!

 

…and a few coupons for free food; one of which we promptly used for lunch. :)

yum

 

After our fun morning, we took a nap and relaxed a little and then spent some time down by the lake. Lovely!

lake time

lake time

lake time

 

I just love our time spent together. :)

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Steph here.

Today is a day for a post about what I’m liking this week. :)

#1:

The lake near our house. It is just so big and beautiful! It’s such a great thing to take morning walks by the lake with my favorite tunes playing in my ears and evening walks with my wife where we just end up sitting by the lake and talking. We both love being near water, and I just love our lake!

lake

 

#2:

Green. Oh my goodness, I waited forever this year for everything to turn green, and being able to look at that color everywhere now is just something I can’t get over this year. It’s like my brain is thirsty for it! I just want to drink it in through my eyes constantly. Also another reason why I like walking a lot!

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#3:

Gluten-free Beer. Thanks to my sister-in-law, Allison, Linds and I discovered this really great gluten-free beer that we both love. It’s so great being able to drink beer again, and since we have some in the fridge this week, it is definitely something I’m liking and will get to enjoy this weekend. :)

#4:

Conversations with my brother. I think my brother is one of the coolest people I’ve ever met. He and I were always super close growing up, and I still just love the guy so much. He makes me laugh (I mean seriously…he’s hysterical); we can have long, deep conversations and both feel awesome after because we just love to analyze things that much; and we get each other. Yesterday we talked for hours. Literally. It was fantastic.

By Stephanie Laney

#5:

The weekend! I love our weekends so so so so much. I’m so glad that we have mastered the art of enjoying our weekends. And right now the fun weekend ahead of me is practically all I can think about. So liking the weekend!! :D

Hope you enjoy yours!

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Linds here.

Last night we were watching Leave it to Beaver via Netflix and I had the thought, wow, how things have changed!

I love watching this show and grew up seeing reruns of it along with shows like The Andy Griffith Show. It’s fun to watch the silly antics of the Beaver and his brother Wally. It’s not only entertaining but quite relaxing to watch a show about an era when the worst thing that most kids did was put fake snakes in their teachers’ desks, or talk about how gross girls are, or avoiding fighting on Sundays. I mean, in every show, the Beaver is getting into some kind of mischief (who says mischief anymore?) but he always gets out pretty easily and by the end, all the adults involved are smiling and teaching him a nice lesson. Now, I know that the Cleavers weren’t a real life family and other families in the 1950’s and 60’s probably weren’t exactly like them but the show seems to represent an era, a time when life was the way it was for a reason and everyone knew it and was for the most part okay with it, a time when kids were kids and did stupid but harmless things that never seemed to have much of a negative impact, a time when character and tradition were like air and water to a family. Like I said before, wow, how things have changed. While I was watching the Beaver being taught a lesson by his father on the importance of saving money I thought, yes, it seems like that was an easier time, a safer time, and a more predictable time. Now parents have to worry about kids bringing guns to school rather the fake snakes, bombs in public places, cyber bullying, and terrorist attacks. However, just before I started wishing for the return of the happy life of the 1950’s another thought stuck me. June Cleaver would never work outside of the home. She’d have to take off her pearls and stop dusting, vacuuming, and making dinner for the boys to do that. She seems so happy with what she does so I’ll leave her to it, but it doesn’t seem so great that she probably didn’t have much of a choice, at least not without facing social stigma for not staying home raising her boys. It also struck me that nobody seems to challenge the status quo. I know a sitcom isn’t necessarily the place to do that anyway but I don’t think I’d give up today’s progress for yesterday’s simplicity. So, I would rather let the Cleavers make me laugh, and entertain me from the T.V. but then join the real world as messy as it may be, challenge the status quo, be authentic and raw and imperfect and beautiful and in full color. There are some valuable things I learn from the Beaver though so here they are:

-         Family is important and so is honesty

Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver: Do you really like me, Wally?

Wally Cleaver: I guess so.

Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver: Do you like me a whole lot?

Wally Cleaver: Look, don’t get sloppy on me. I might just slug you one.

-         Always prioritize saving

Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver: I could use my own money, the twenty-five dollars I got in the bank.

Wally Cleaver: I thought you were saving that to go to college.

Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver: Larry says he never heard of a college you could go to for twenty-five dollars.

-         Being good takes work

Ward Cleaver: Beaver, you know what Larry was doing was wrong. You could have stopped him.

Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver: Gee, Dad, I have enough trouble keeping myself good without keeping all the other kids good.

-         Pick your battles

June Cleaver: Wally, where are you going?

Wally Cleaver: I’m going over to slug Eddie.

June Cleaver: That’s no way to talk, this is Sunday.

Wally Cleaver: You’re right, I’ll wait ’til tomorrow and slug him in the cafeteria.

-         One close friend, spouse, or relative is better than a slew of surface level relationships

Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver: You know something, Wally? I’d rather do nothin’ with you than somethin’ with anybody else.

-         Life isn’t all about having the biggest fish

Ward Cleaver: How’d the fishing go Beav?

Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver: Great Dad. We didn’t catch any fish, but Larry and I saw a man slip on a wet rock and heard everything he said.

-         Gay marriage just makes sense

Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver: When I grow up and get married, I’m not going to marry a girl. 

maravconnolly says:
HILARIOUS! Thanks for sharing the dialogue. I think we often miss REALLY... more

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